{"id":44841,"date":"2025-09-22T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-22T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/?p=44841"},"modified":"2025-09-18T16:11:41","modified_gmt":"2025-09-18T23:11:41","slug":"kid-carriers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/kid-carriers\/","title":{"rendered":"Kid Carriers"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-44843\" width=\"239\" height=\"337\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers2.jpg 338w, https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers2-213x300.jpg 213w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 239px) 100vw, 239px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>Essential kid carrier<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/UMgb9G\">Kelty Pathfinder<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve used this kid-carrier backpack from Kelty, called the Pathfinder, nearly every day for the past year. For instance, just today I took a bird-watching hike with my 16-month-old son, Ivan, who loves traveling in the pack. Previous to the Pathfinder I was using an expensive Phil-and-Ted Backpack for a few months, but it was inferior. It is attractive and stylish and it has what seems to be a more comfortable seat for the child, but the adjustments are limited for positioning the child. It\u2019s essential when using one of these packs that the kid\u2019s weight is well-balanced over the wearer\u2019s hips, and not too far back. I find that the Phil and Ted\u2019s pack isn\u2019t adjustable enough, so that my child becomes cantilevered too far off of my back. In contrast, the Kelty pack\u2019s adjustments allow me to place my child in such a way that his weight rests on my hips and doesn\u2019t put too much strain on my back and neck.<br><br>The previously reviewed and recommended Ergo Baby carrier is an outstanding product, if not the best overall child carrier. It\u2019s great for wearing young infants in front, and it can\u2014like this Kelty\u2014 be used to wear a larger toddler on your back. However, the kid is directly against your back, so any type of serious hiking would be out of the question because it would be too uncomfortable and sweaty. I like to get a workout in while I\u2019m out with my son, and with the heat he generates having him directly on my back would be miserable.<br><br>Like the other packs in this class, the Pathfinder is designed to balance a lot of weight (up to 44 lbs.), so that it feels comfortable for the wearer and for the child while you are really hiking. The pack itself is lightweight, and comes with a very useful sun\/rain canopy. The padding on the back and the positioning of the child both keep my back from getting hot and sweaty. The Pathfinder has two hip pockets accessible while you\u2019re wearing the pack, and the main storage compartment that rests behind the kid detaches as a small daypack, diaper bag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What sets the old Pathfinder apart from the top-of-the-line Ortlieb and Deuter models \u2014 and the current Pathfinder 3.0, Kelty\u2019s current top-of-the-line version \u2014 is simply its low price. Functionally it\u2019s the same as, or at least very similar to, the high-end newer models, but with out-of-style colors.<br><br>You can get these classic packs cheap on eBay because parents receive them as gifts but then never use them. It requires some effort to adjust them properly, and more importantly it\u2019s simply hard to carry 32 pounds (my kid + cargo + the pack itself) on your back if you\u2019re not used to it, especially hiking uphill or on uneven terrain. So there\u2019s an abundance of high-quality inexpensive used backpacks in excellent condition. I bought mine unused for $65 through Craigslist, versus about $275 for the new Pathfinder 3.0. \u2014&nbsp;<em>Elon Schoenholz<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-44842\" width=\"307\" height=\"377\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers1.jpg 359w, https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers1-244x300.jpg 244w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 307px) 100vw, 307px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>New-parent handbook<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/AWFixE\">The Baby Book<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>New parents don\u2019t want your advice unless they ask for it. Trust me. Nothing invites unwelcome advice like having a baby. And nothing in my life has confronted me with a steeper learning curve than becoming a father. Of the many resources my wife and I turned to in the first couple of years after our daughter was born, this one\u2019s a favorite. William and Martha Sears (M.D. and R.N., respectively, and parents of&nbsp;<em>eight<\/em>) are the Dr. Spocks of the current generation, and they seem to have been influenced by his favoring increased parental flexibility and affection over an emphasis on discipline and character building. The Sears\u2019s sage and sober advice always feels friendly, even-handed; their joint perspective is broad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s nothing revolutionary to their approach: Attachment parenting is their emphasis. And simply put, attachment parenting as they define it means being very involved and engaged and responding to who your child is and what she needs. And enjoying parenting in the process, of course. Makes sense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re about to become a parent, you\u2019ll be well-served with this exhaustive guidebook. If someone close to you is a soon-to-be parent, share your wisdom only if it\u2019s sought and buy him The Baby Book. The Sears\u2019a Discipline Book is a worthwhile read, too. \u2014&nbsp;<em>Elon Schoenholz<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>The Seven Baby B\u2019s of Attachment Parenting<br>1. birth bonding<br>2. belief in the signal value of your baby\u2019s cries<br>3. breastfeeding<br>4. babywearing<br>5. bedding close to baby<br>6. balance and boundaries<br>7. beware of baby trainers<\/li><li><strong>Beware of Baby Trainers<\/strong><br>Be prepared to be the target of well-meaning advisers who will shower you with detachment advice, such as: \u201cLet her cry it out,\u201d \u201cGet her on a schedule,\u201d \u201cYou shouldn\u2019t still be nursing her!\u201d and \u201cDon\u2019t pick her up so much, you\u2019re spoiling her!\u201d If carried to the extreme, baby training is a lose-lose situation: Baby loses trust in the signal value of her cues, and parents lose trust in their ability to read and respond to baby\u2019s cues. As a result, a distance can develop between baby and parent, which is just the opposite of the closeness that develops with attachment parenting\u2026The basis of baby training is to help babies become more \u201cconvenient.\u201d It is based upon the misguided assumption that babies cry to manipulate, not to communicate.<\/li><li><strong>Best Fats for Babies<\/strong><br>Not only should infants get 40 to 50 percent of their calories from fats, they should eat the right variety of fats. In addition to breast milk, the best fats for babies (and also for children and adults) come from marine and vegetable sources. Ranked in order of nutritional content they are:<br>&#8211; seafood (especially salmon)<br>&#8211; flax oil<br>&#8211; avocados<br>&#8211; vegetable oils<br>&#8211; nut butters (because of possible allergies, delay peanut butter until after&nbsp;<em>two years<\/em>)<\/li><li><strong>Discipline Begins at Birth<\/strong><br>Discipline begins as a relationship, not a list of methods. The first stage of discipline &#8212; the attachment stage &#8212; begins at birth and develops as you and your baby grow together. The big three of attachment parenting (breastfeeding, wearing baby, and responding to baby\u2019s cues) are actually your first disciplinary actions. A baby who is on the receiving end of attachment parenting feels right, and a person who feels right is more likely to act right. An attachment parented baby is more receptive to authority because he operates from a foundation of trust. This baby spends the early months of his life learning that the world is a responsive and trusting place to be.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers4.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-44845\" width=\"319\" height=\"319\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers4.jpg 397w, https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers4-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers4-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 319px) 100vw, 319px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>Space-saving high chair alternative<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/us.philandteds.com\/products\/lobster-portable-high-chair-v1\">Phil &amp; Teds Lobster<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When our son was born, we were living in a tiny one-bedroom apartment in central London, and were about to move back to America. We wanted something minimal but effective, and we thought the Phil &amp; Teds chair would be a stopgap measure until we had a bigger house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that we have the bigger house, we still love the P&amp;T chair. Our baby can sit at the table with us, and because he has the whole table in front of him much less food ends up on the floor than when he\u2019s in a traditional high chair. We can also clamp the chair to the breakfast counter in the kitchen, so he can eat while we cook. And in some small way our house is less \u201cbabified\u201d than it would be with a real high chair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some disadvantages: The specs say it can support up to 40 lbs, roughly a child 3 years of age. When our son is a bit bigger, we\u2019ll have to find another solution. Also, the chair uses metal C-clamps that open about 2\u2033 at most, and sit in about 1\u2033. That limits the types of tables we can use it with: obviously no glass table tops, but also no tables with a wide lip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The model that we have is called a MeToo. P&amp;T have recently begun selling a model called the Lobster with a plastic ratcheting claw clamp. That model may be faster to attach, but could be less robust than the aluminum screw clamp on the MeToo. I haven\u2019t used any other travel high chairs, but we prefer the P&amp;T chair to the many traditional high chairs we\u2019ve tried. For small-space living, it\u2019s an excellent solution. \u2014&nbsp;<em>Ashish Ranpura<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers3.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-44844\" width=\"281\" height=\"281\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers3.jpg 436w, https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers3-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/files\/2025\/09\/kid-carriers3-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 281px) 100vw, 281px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>Best double stroller<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/us.philandteds.com\/products\/voyager-buggy-double-kit\">Phil &amp; Teds Double Stroller<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After a year of experience using Phil and Ted\u2019s E3 stroller, with two-kid kit, we think it\u2019s simply amazing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The handling on the E3 stroller is superb. Unlike side-by-side strollers, the width on the E3 is no problem, and the front wheel pivots so you never have any trouble negotiating the tightest areas. Medium sized real tires mean it\u2019s no trouble to move over uneven terrain (dirt paths are easy). Construction is excellent, and the whole unit moves with the smoothness and solidity of a well made machine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not the lightest stroller you can buy, but we bought the travel bag accessory and have checked it on multiple airplane flights with no trouble at all. Folds well enough to fit in the back of our car when we take day trips as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of the various ways you can set-up the stroller (see their&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.philandteds.com\/cat.htm\">website<\/a>) we\u2019ve had, by far, the most experience with it setup for two seated kids. My wife was concerned that the back seat would be a tough sell on for the kids, but our 3 year old seems to prefer it, which was a surprise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At $380 for the basic unit, we thought hard about spending that much money on a stroller. But to this day, we remark on how GOOD that purchase looks in retrospect. We use it daily \u2014 well worth the extra money in our view. \u2014&nbsp;<em>Brian Fleming<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Once a week we\u2019ll send out a page from Cool Tools: A Catalog of Possibilities. The tools might be outdated or obsolete, and the links to them may or may not work. 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