Outside of Jayme’s day job (product marketing), she loves cooking, reading, and screaming at Premier League broadcasts. She’s an amateur photographer and birder who volunteers for Birdability, which helps ensure that nature and the outdoors are accessible for people with disabilities and health challenges.

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PHYSICAL

• Penzy’s Spices are one of my go-to gifts. I love encouraging my people to feel more comfortable in the kitchen, and these are an easy way to uplift even simple foods. Sunny Paris and Fines Herbes are my to-go (salt-free!) choices for eggs, and the Vietnamese Cinnamon blows grocery store options out of the water.
• I bought this wave study from an artist named Jean Wichea, whose work I found at a gallery in Maine. It looks eerily similar to my favorite cliffside spot, and I find myself staring at it a few times a day, since it pulls me out of my anxieties and helps me reset.
• I’ve been slowly replacing all of my lower-quality pots and pans over the last couple of years, and I saved up for this braiser after seeing someone else cook with one and instantly coveting it. Although I probably could have gotten away with a similar, cheaper model with a glass lid, I don’t have any regrets. It cooks really evenly, and the bright yellow makes a big, happy focal point in the middle of the kitchen.

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DIGITAL

• Dungeon Scrawl is an awesome tool for building fantasy maps, perfect for D&D and other tabletop RPGs. You don’t even need to make an account to use it (unless you decide you want the premium features). Design a Dungeon next time you get bored in a Zoom meeting!
• Hanif Abdurraqib is one of my favorite authors and poets, and overlaps just enough of my friend group and special interests that I sometimes find myself thinking, “oh yeah, we’d be pals” before feeling creeped out at myself for skirting a parasocial hypothetical. His posts are always interesting, whether deep-diving into a song or album, basketball lore, or life in general. They’re a welcome addition to an increasingly fraught social landscape.

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INVISIBLE

“Now will never come again.”

One of my best friends recently shared this quote with me (shoutout to the nerds that know the source), and it’s influenced my decision-making dozens of times since. Sometimes, we need a reminder of the obvious.

01/28/26