How to find purpose/Kagi/Track your natural energy

Recomendo - issue #468

How to find purpose

The purpose of your life is to discover the purpose of your life. If that sounds recursive, it is. No one has pushed harder on untangling that strange loop than Dan Pink, whose professional career has been trying to illuminate the way for ordinary folks to find their drive and purpose. He recently crafted a 10-minute video – How to Find Your Purpose – with clear, actionable steps you can take if stuck. I agree 100% with his approach and recommendations. They really help. — KK

Kagi Search Engine

I switched from Google to Kagi a couple of months ago and can’t imagine going back. The results remind me of Google’s golden age, before ads took over. The uncluttered ad-free interface delivers high-quality results without the SEO spam that plagues Google. It has tons of customization features I’m still learning about. It’s $10 a month, but having a search engine aligned with user experience rather than advertising revenue is worth it. — MF

Track your natural energy patterns

I took the advice from this LifeProTip and tracked my natural energy and focus patterns for a week to figure out when I’m most productive. For me, it’s after 1 PM. In the mornings, even though I do everything “right”—sitting out in the sun, sipping coffee, and exercising—I still usually feel energetically dispersed and have brain fog for the first half of the day. Instead of getting frustrated or trying to force myself to focus, I decided to shift my approach. Now, I work on tasks that don’t require much brainpower in the morning and save the more demanding ones for the afternoon. This one change has made me feel less shameful or frustrated with my natural patterns and more accomplished each day. — CD

Quiet, powerful hair dryer

My wife started using this CNMSGM hair dryer. Compared to her old dryer, it’s much quieter, more powerful, and lighter (under 1 pound). It features a smart LED ring that changes color to indicate temperature mode (red for hot, orange for warm, green for soft, and blue for cool). The two magnetic attachments snap on easily. Some users on Amazon mention that the power cord is a bit short, but I measured it, and it’s 70 inches long, which is more than enough for our bathroom. — MF

Invisible ring resizer

I love wearing rings, but my fingers are smaller than average and it’s really hard to find rings below a size 5, so I’m often disappointed when shopping for fashion jewelry. I finally found a solution with this Invisible Ring Spacer by Yiruhe. I coat the inside of the ring with a resin liquid that hardens in two minutes under UV light, repeating the process until the ring fits perfectly. It’s straightforward, and if you mess up or want to remove it, you can just run the ring under warm water and peel off the resin easily. My only complaint is the smell of the resin, so I’ve been resizing my rings outside. — CD

Death clock

Part of the thrill of being alive is that we don’t know when we will die. However, I’ve found that knowing my statistical death age to be very clarifying, and it helps me focus on maximizing today. There’s a new AI-enhanced Death Clock that takes into account your lifestyle choices to give you a death date based on statistics. It’s quick and free on the web. Treat it as a hint rather than destiny. — KK

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06/29/25

Book Freak 184: Happy Money

The Science of Happier Spending

Get Happy Money

Why It Matters

Research shows we often fail to spend money in ways that maximize our happiness. Happy Money, by Elizabeth Dunn & Michael Norton, provides a research-backed framework for getting more satisfaction from every dollar by changing how we spend rather than how much we have. The authors’ core principles offer actionable ways to transform spending habits for greater wellbeing.

Core Principles

Buy Experiences, Not Things

Spending money on experiences, such as travel, concerts, and learning new skills, provides more lasting happiness than material purchases. Experiences give us stories to tell, connect us to others, and become a meaningful part of our identity. While things get old, experiences grow richer in memory over time.

Make It a Treat

Abundance reduces appreciation. By deliberately limiting access to the things we enjoy — whether lattes or luxury cars — we can maintain their specialness and maximize pleasure. Small pleasures deliver more happiness when they’re occasional treats rather than everyday occurrences.

Buy Time

Trading money for more free time by outsourcing disliked tasks or reducing commute times can make us happier than buying more stuff. Yet people often fail to spend money to buy themselves more time, even when they can afford to do so. Making time-saving purchases helps combat feelings of time scarcity.

Try It Now

1. Plan a novel experience with friends instead of buying a new gadget
2. Pick one regular indulgence and make it a weekly treat rather than a daily habit
3. Use a portion of your next paycheck to outsource an unpleasant task
4. Pay upfront for future fun activities, then enjoy them feeling “free”
5. Buy coffee for a coworker and observe how it boosts both of your moods

Quote

“If human happiness is even half as complicated as the stock market, there is little reason to assume that intuition provides a sufficient guide.”

06/27/25

Great Walking Cities/United Partnerships/Lifetime Park Pass

Nomadico issue #161

We hit 20,000 subscribers last week, so thanks to all of you for joining us! If you want to support our work and get access to quarterly info calls, please become a paid subscriber.

Top Walking Cities

This list from Guru Walks is not comprehensive since it only has data on destinations where that company operates, but if you’re looking for good walking cities, it’ll give you plenty of ideas. All of the top 30 are in Europe except for Marrakech, but then comes more variety with New York City, Tokyo, Mexico City, Medellin, Hanoi, Cartagena, Buenos Aires, and Cusco making a showing.

Historical Tech Tree

Want to find out when something was invented and what else arrived around the same time? Check out the Historical Tech Tree that lays it all out on a timeline. In case you were wondering, sunglasses have been around since 1750, wristwatches since 1810, and flashlights since 1899. (Suitcases and backpacks not listed, though the upright rollaboard suitcase didn’t appear until 1987.)

United Partners With JetBlue and Spotify

If you’re sitting on a lot of JetBlue points, you may want to hold onto them for a while because United and JetBlue are partnering up. Dates are fuzzy but at some point you’ll be able to use JetBlue miles to book a United flight and vice-versa. It’ll also mean more slots for United planes at JFK. Also, the United flight I was just on had some Spotify podcasts and the choices are going to expand to music and audiobooks under a new agreement.

Lifetime National Park Pass for Seniors

I visited Joshua Tree National Park last week and would highly recommend a visit if you’re anywhere near there. When I’m old enough I plan to pick up one of the greatest travel bargains on the planet: a lifetime U.S. National Parks pass for only $80. If you’re a citizen or legal resident 62 or older, buy it online here and wave it at entrance gates for the rest of your life.

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06/26/25

What’s in my NOW? — Eric Maierson

issue #216

I am a freelance editor, writer, and producer and two-time Emmy winner. I love making interesting work with good people. I also love books and dogs. I run a newsletter that offers 5 great links every week. You can subscribe here:Fave 5 and my website is www.ericmaierson.com.

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PHYSICAL

• Uniball Vision Elite Rollerball Pens – This is a great pen. It feels almost like painting. Its just a tiny bit messy at times, but so is life.
• Field Notes Brand Heavy Duty Edition – I adore Field Notes. They have a new styled notebook every quarter. You can subscribe and get a discount but I buy them thinking I won’t need the next one. I’m always wrong. I use the pocket notebooks for logging my day and the larger ones for gathering my thoughts.
• NuPhy Air96 V2 keyboard – I used the standard Mac keyboard forever. I didn’t realize how much I missed the tactile clacks. And its retro looks are so stylish.

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DIGITAL

• Clean Shot X – supercharges the mac’s screen capture tool. Clean Shot makes it easy to annotate your screenshots, too. So helpful for drawing someone’s attention to areas of a website.
• Text Sniper – Extract text from images. Why is this tool not built in? You see text in an image and rather than having to retype, Text Sniper allows you take essentially an invisible screenshot, that loads the image’s text into your clipboard. Very accurate.

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INVISIBLE

“I am searching for that which is real of my heart, and which when completed I can stand humble to one side of and say: ‘This is it, this is how I feel, this is my honest interpretation of the world; this is not influenced by money, or trickery, or pressure…except the pressure of my soul.’” — W. Eugene Smith

06/25/25

Craft for the Soul / The Coloring Book for Goths

Issue No. 72

CRAFT FOR THE SOUL SHOWS US HOW TO CONSTANTLY GENERATE IDEAS AND CREATE COOL STUFF

Craft for the Soul: How to Get the Most Out of Your Creative Life
by Pip Lincolne (author)
Penguin Books Australia
2016, 216 pages, 6 x 9 x 0.9 inches (hardcover)

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When it comes to dishing out all there is to know about living a creative life, Pip Lincolne is certainly your go-to woman. She’s the author of several creative titles and the talent behind popular blog Meet Me at Mike’s. She is also the founder of multiple inspiring projects, including worldwide craft group Brown Owls and the eMag series The Good Stuff Guide.

For some, stumbling upon Pip Lincolne’s book, Craft for the Soul, might seem a bit like discovering a rare gem. Sure, there are plenty of books about creativity, as well as numerous books filled with cute craft projects, but Lincolne has seamlessly blended the two to produce a book that is bursting with all things creative. Nestled among her down-to-earth advice about morning rituals, keeping active for creativity’s sake, and how to constantly generate ideas (among plenty of other topics), you’ll also find her favorite delicious recipes, along with adorable illustrations, inspiring quotes, and crafty DIY projects.

The author stresses that each and every one of us are capable of filling our day-to-day lives with more creativity, happiness, and fun. And for those of you thinking you don’t have a creative bone in your bodies – the pang of inspiration you feel every time you turn a page will certainly have you thinking otherwise! – Melanie Doncas

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THE COLORING BOOK FOR GOTHS: THE WORLD’S MOST DEPRESSING BOOK

The Coloring Book for Goths: The World’s Most Depressing Book
by Tom Devonald
Atria Books
2016, 96 pages, 5.5 x 7.5 x 0.4 inches (paperback)

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I wasn’t a big fan of high school, and my high school wasn’t a big fan of me. Weird, awkward, and music-obsessed, I was a concert-tee-clad speck in a sea of polo shirts and boat shoes. My 30th high school reunion was last July. A friend of mine from high school, who has a sadistic sense of humor, added me to the reunion Facebook page. One of the organizers for the event asked the group what songs they wanted to hear at the reunion. They all commented with one singular word, “Eighties.” The organizer tried their best to be diplomatic, and calmly asked which particular songs they wanted to hear, which then prompted the response of, “Eighties.” This went on for a while. Finally, someone commented with Starship’s “We Built This City.”

Needless to say, I didn’t attend the reunion. I try my best to avoid situations where I might accidentally hear one note of Starship’s “We Built This City.” In a strange coincidence, some of my friends who didn’t attend my high school organized a gothic/punk/industrial ‘club kid’ reunion the weekend prior to my high school reunion. During the early-to-mid ’80s, the midwestern city I lived in had a great alternative music club scene. We would spend most of our evenings dressed in black and coiffed outrageously, dancing to Bauhaus’ seminal track “Bela Lugosi is Dead,” Joy Division’s “Love Will Tear Us Apart,” amongst other doomy, angsty, deep cuts and non-hits. Going back to my hometown and dancing with old friends to great music was one of the highlights of 2015. Yes, I dressed in black.

Well, let’s segue into the review. The Coloring Book For Goths is a humorous coloring book requiring only one color: black. Geared to the current coloring book fad, it has one joke. Once you color it in, the page turns completely, thoroughly black. Featuring crows, black widow spiders, pentagrams, coffins, and crypts, and making references to Edgar Allen Poe, Robert Smith, and Friedrich Nietzsche, the book often only makes a passing reference to the goth subculture.

Some pages are funny and clever – a page of Metallica lyrics, pages exploring oblivion, the unknown, and the unknowable – but there are just as many embarrassing pages that belie a rudimentary understanding of the culture. An insecure killer whale? A polar bear in witness protection? Embarrassing tattoos? Unfortunately, someone enveloped in the goth culture would probably never purchase this book, and tourists to the culture probably won’t come away with a better understanding of it. It both embraces and pokes fun at the culture. Still, it was cute and made me snicker, because while we may have a serious demeanor, goths (and former goths) can take a joke. – S. Deathrage

06/24/25

Clays

Tools for Possibilities: issue no. 143

Non-fired sculpting clay

Sugru

Sugru is a soft moldable material that reminds me of Fimo clay. But unlike Fimo, it does not have to be heated to cure. It air drys and is rubbery and sticks to anything. I used it to make a new button for my utility knife when the plastic one broke. I made bumpers for my cell phone. I put some on my tools so they would not roll off the table. I am still discovering ways to use the product. — Philip Lipton

This stuff comes in tiny pouches of different primary colors. You knead a bit with your hands until soft, then you apply it where you would like an additional grip, or stop, or section of repair. It’s pretty sticky, can be worked like clay, but dries into a hard rubber. The photo shows a paring knife handle that was falling apart from years of dishwasher use. I coated the outside with Sugru and it now it feels great and is dishwasher proof. See Sugru’s website for other ways it can be used. — KK

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Better than clay

Sculpey

Artists know about this stuff. It’s flexible polymer clay that hardens into rigid plastic after a spell in your kitchen oven. Bright steadfast colors. Or you can paint, drill, and polish it. Great for making toys, models, small sculptures, modern jewelry, and weird stuff — anything that demands that colored plastic look. SuperSculpey is a translucent beige-colored (skin like) variety sold in bulk that dollmakers and Hollywood special effects swear by. Most good art suppliers will stock it. — KK

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Stiff polymer clay

SuperSculpey Firm

A few weeks ago, my 11-year old son and I decided to sculpt, so we got out SuperSculpey Firm polymer clay. After working with this newer style of Sculpey for a while, we decided it totally kicks ass on softer styles of Sculpey. Why? Because it doesn’t flop over on its side when handled. And it’s firm enough to keep its shape when carved. My son began making a tank. So I made a tank. We have yet to paint them.

The Sculpey brands are especially encouraging for beginners, yet professionals artists depend on them as well. Pros ranging from vinyl toy artists to designers for film use it. Unlike normal clay, Sculpey hardly changes shape or size when baked, and hardening takes place quickly, at the relatively low temperatures of a convection oven (even a toaster oven will do).

Because of its polymer base, there’s loads of fun techniques to try with Sculpey: like baking your sculpture for only half the allotted time. When you take it out of the oven, prematurely, you’ll find your little masterpiece has a soft, rubbery texture. In this state, it won’t lose its shape and can be easily carved with a knife or a file. Have you cut too much away? Add a little more Sculpey and put it back in the oven, for more cooking! — Robyn Miller

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Silver clay that becomes silver metal

Precious Metal Clay

Precious Metal Clay lets you make fine jewelry with little experience or equipment. It works like Fimo clay, except it is more crumbly because it contains powdered precious metal, such as silver, or gold. (It will also dry out faster.) The organic clay binding burns off when you fire it and you end up with pure fine silver or gold in the shape of the clay you made. If you have jewelry skills you can keep working it from there, soldering, shaping, etc.. Since I don’t have much skill I just polish up my pieces or antique them with silver black. There’s an implication that you have to fire PMC pieces in a kiln (that would be nice), but so far everything I’ve done I’ve fired myself on the kitchen floor with a basic propane torch.

All PMC shrinks significantly when fired. However since the shrinkage is proportional, jewelers use this shrinkage to produce very fine detail that would be difficult if you had to work at full size. PMC comes in various formulations with different shrinkage rates. The original PMC shrinks 30%, while PMC+ and PMC3 shrinks only 10%. (I’ve never tried using the torch on anything except silver PMC+ and PMC3 because I prefer the lower shrinkage of these.)

My one piece of advice about firing PMC with a propane torch: This stuff is very expensive (it’s silver or gold, remember!) so take a small piece and sacrifice it to learn how to heat evenly first. It is very easy to overheat it which will melt the silver into a blob., which is bad. If you aren’t sure if it’s metal yet (it’ll be whitish), pick it up with needle nose plier and drop it very gently on the metal surface you fired it on. It should make a satisfying metal-on-metal thunk. When I am feeling more flush, I’ll find out if gold PMC can be fired this way. — Quinn Norton

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Moldable plastic

Shapelock

Shapelock is “Ultra-High Molecular Weight Low Temperature Thermoplastic. Similar to nylon and polypropylene in toughness., except it’s easy to work with and shape.”

You get a bag of plastic pellets, put them in 160F water, and they phase change, becoming soft and moldable. If you don’t let the water get too hot, when you take the plastic out, it’s cool enough to shape with your hands.

When it cools down, it hardens into a strong, durable, paintable, machine-able white plastic. If you don’t like what you made, you just put it in 160F water again and reshape it.

Great for making prototypes — also fun to play with. The same stuff, under a different name (Friendly Plastic), is available in larger quantities, at a slightly cheaper rate. — Patrick Tufts

06/23/25

What’s in my NOW? — Eric Maierson